We have put together some resources that can help your understanding the process of transition, know how to parent through it, and tools to prepare your children for empowered adulthood.

Iron John
By Robert Bly
Vintage Press
Under Saturn's
By James Hollis
Inner City Books
Finding Meaning
By James Hollis
Gotham Books
Reviving Ophelia
By Mary Pipher
Grossett Putnam
The Ultimate Gift
By Jim Stovall
Executive Books

general information:
Parenting With Love And Logic (Updated and Expanded Edition) by Foster Cline and Jim Fay, (Pinon Press: parenting)
Grown-Up Children Who Won't Grow Up by Dr. Larry Stockman and Cynthia Graves
The Heart of Addiction by Lance Dodes, M.D., (Quill: self-help/addiction)
The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle, (New World Library: personal growth/spirituality)
Thresholds of the Mind by Bill Harris, (Centerpointe Press: personal roadmap to success)
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, A Toltec Wisdom Book by Don Miguel Ruiz, (Amber-Allen Publishing: practical guide to personal freedom)
*The Ultimate Gift (The Ultimate Series #1) by Jim Stovall, (Executive Books: example of training)
Turning Passions Into Profits: Three Steps to Wealth and Power by Christopher Howard, (Wiley: success in business)
transitioning males:
Men and the Water of Life: Initiation and the Tempering of Men by Michael Meade (HarperSanFrancisco: mythology/menís studies)
Iron John: A Book About Men by Robert Bly, (Vintage Press: a book about men)
transitioning females:
Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls by Mary Pipher, (Grosset/Putnam: saving the selves of adolescent girls)
life training skills:
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki, (What the rich teach their kids about money that the poor and middle class do not)
The Divine Matrix: Bridging Time, Space, Miracles, and Belief by Gregg Braden, (Hay House: the miracles we see in the quantum world shows us our greatest possibilities)
Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature-Deficit Disorder by Robert Louv (A drug-free cure for many modern ills).
Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life: How to Finally, Really Grow Up by James Hollis, (Gotham Books: If you don't grow up why should you expect it of your children?)
gifts for rites of passage celebrations:
Conversations with My Mother (Lark books; A keepsake journal for celebrating a lifetime of stories.)
Conversations with My Father (Lark books; A keepsake journal for celebrating a lifetime of stories.)
Between Me And You Mom, (Sand Dune Publishing; www.sanddunebooks.com. A keepsake journal for mom's to share their life journey)
Between Me And You Dad, (Sand Dune Publishing; www.sanddunebooks.com. A keepsake journal for dad's to share their life journey)
For My Child: A Mother's Keepsake by Linda Kranz, (Northland Publishing; www.northlandpub.com. A Mother's Keepsake Journal)
A Father's Legacy: Your Life Story in Your Own Words (Gift Books from Hallmark; A Christian Journal to share your life story in your own words)